5 days ahead: Hard-cook eggs; refrigerate in shells.
2 days ahead: Make Gorgonzola Vinaigrette. Blanch asparagus for salad. Make vermouth glaze for ham. Make lavender syrup for dessert.
1 day ahead: Fill eggs (leave off herb garnish). Make soup. Rub ham with seasonings. Make roll dough. Make Honey Cream.
3 hours ahead: Start cooking ham.
1 to 2 hours ahead: Shape dough and allow to rise. Prep artichokes. Quarter strawberries.
While ham rests: Cook potatoes and artichokes. Reheat soup (add water or chicken broth if soup is too thick). Top eggs with herb garnish.
Last-minute: Bake rolls. Make cocktails. Toss salad just before serving.